#105165
Wardy
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    @wardy

get a divorce because she sounds horrible if she won’t let you get something you actually like.

You sound whipped (under the thumb) …

slap her in the face and tell her you’ve had enough of her shit

Go out, Get a tattoo, don’t give a fuck what she says

If she does show her where the door is.

It wont effect your job just don’t get it somewhere visible get it on top of your arm or something.


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#105285
xanderx
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    @xanderx
msmercury;88634 wrote:
First of all, welcome to the forum. I have been having problems with my HUSBAND not allowing me to get anymore than the one tattoo that I have. It took me a year of begging and whispering in his ear before I got that one. I think he has caved and will be letting me get another tattoo this summer as long as it isn’t too large or too open. He wants me to be able to cover them and doesn’t want to have to look at them. When I wear shorts and go out in public, he doesn’t want to be seen with me, but I force him.

You can just wear clothes to cover your tattoo at work. That is no problem. No one at work knows I have a tattoo. However, I won’t hesitate to show it should I decide to wear a shorter skirt to work, which I don’t except on rare occasions. I usually am all alone at work anyway. It is a 1 girl office and 2 men for bosses who are rarely around, so, I really don’t have any concerns there and I doubt it would be an issue for either of them.

As for your wife, well, you’ll just have to keep on it and really let her know how serious you are. Hey, I know, do you have something you can blackmail her with? In exchange for keeping quiet, you get your tattoo!! hehehehehe! Maybe you can make a trade with her. Is there something she has always wanted so badly that she would say yes to your tattoo in exchange for you making her dream a reality? Just thoughts.

Anyway, good luck with it all. I hope you eventually get your tattoo.

msmercury, thanks for the reply! 🙂 my post was actually about a year old and the good news is that i am finally getting my tattoo!!! 🙂 hoping your situation gets better as well and that the hubby becomes more understanding! does he have any ink himself?


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#105287
xanderx
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    @xanderx
WardyInk;88645 wrote:
get a divorce because she sounds horrible if she won’t let you get something you actually like.

You sound whipped (under the thumb) …

slap her in the face and tell her you’ve had enough of her shit

Go out, Get a tattoo, don’t give a fuck what she says

If she does show her where the door is.

It wont effect your job just don’t get it somewhere visible get it on top of your arm or something.

thanks for the reply 🙂

but i won’t take any advice from someone like you 🙂 i read your posts and replies and i’m amazed at how people here tolerate you 🙂 take your tattooed fingers and stick ’em somewhere else they are welcome, but not here.

ciao!


well-begun is half-done!
#105289
Wardy
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    @wardy

Well there’s clearly no need to act like that i was just telling you the truth mate.

Because it is honestly rather pathetic if you are under the thumb no need to take it out on me.

You made a thread crying about your problem and i told you the truth so keep your chin up and take the critisizim. you made the thread not me.


Are you going to bark all day little doggy or are you going to bite?
#105294
anonymous
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    @anonymous