hey everybody thanks for the input. i dont think i was clear enough in my first post, but i got my new tat done yesterday. it has a scroll going on the bottom vertical piece of the cross that wraps around three times and has love thy family on it. my family’s names are on the outside of the cross. 1 underneath the bottom point, 1 beside the right, 1 beside the left, and 1 above the top point. ill put a picture up later when its healed. got it on my chest above my heart