Hi
First of all have you sought help for the cutting – it is a recognised psychological condition and can be treated.
I ask for two reasons;
1. It is not healthy to use tattooing subconciously as a way of self harming. I have done a lot of research and a few I have spoken with admitted that they found tattooing as a proxy to cutting, but felt less guilty because it was an artist doing it to them rather than to themselves.
2. You do not want to relapse and put a cut through that expensive ink you have had done.
(I mean the above with the deepest of respect and I am in now way trying to be humourous about it – I take this sort of thing very seriously)
As for ideas I have many but need to know more about your tastes;
Do you want colour or black n shade?
How big?
Style – portraiture, fantasy, biomech, comical, spiritual, tribal etc
What are your dislikes?
Post up and I am sure we will can come up with something.
Take Care
Matthew